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Yeah, lots of guys do a great job of acting, and some have the love-lorn romantic fool bit down pat. The idea that a population of single people can be analyzed like a market might be useful to some extent to sociologists or economists, but the widespread adoption of it by single people themselves can result in a warped outlook on love.
Moira Weigel, the author of Labor of Love: The Invention of Datingargues that dating as we know it—single people going out together to restaurants, bars, movies, and other commercial or semicommercial spaces—came about in the late 19th century. What dating does is it takes that process out of the home, out of supervised and mostly noncommercial spaces, to movie theaters and dance halls.
The application of the supply-and-demand concept, Weigel said, may have come into the picture in the late 19th century, when American cities were exploding in population. Actual romantic chemistry is volatile and hard to predict; it can crackle between two people with nothing in common and fail to materialize in what looks on paper like a perfect match.
This makes supply and demand a bit harder to parse. Given that marriage is much sigle commonly understood to mean a relationship involving one-to-one exclusivity and permanence, the idea of a marketplace or economy maps much more cleanly onto matrimony Noraml dating. The marketplace metaphor also fails to for what many daters know intuitively: that being on the market for a long time—or being off the market, and then back on, and then off again—can change how a person interacts with the marketplace.
This can cause bitterness and disillusionment, or worse. She estimates that she gets 10 times as many messages as the average man in her town. When she declined, she sinle, he called her 83 times later that night, between 1 a. Despite having received 83 phone calls in four hours, Liz was sympathetic toward the man.
The logic is upsetting but clear: The shaky foundational idea of capitalism is that the market is unfailingly impartial and correct, and that its mechanisms of supply and demand and value exchange guarantee that everything is fair. And in online spaces populated by heterosexual men, heterosexual women have been charged with the bulk of these crimes. While they have surely created, at this point, thousands if not millions of successful relationships, they have also aggravated, for some men, their feeling that they are unjustly invisible to women.
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